Thursday, November 26, 2009

THANKSGIVING


(Daddy, me, Mother, Carol--1952)

I remember Thanksgiving as a little girl living in Midway and the
wonderful accompanying smells. Mother was up at the crack of
dawn to prepare the turkey and homemade stuffing which was
always cooked inside the turkey. The turkey was cooked in an
roasting oven that sat next to the kitchen cupboard.
Dough for her yummy Parker House Rolls was raising and pies
made the day before were "cooling" in the utility room.
Mother made her own mincemeat for pies using deer roasts and
it was to die for. That is something I really miss. REAL mince-
meat, not the kind you can buy now or that I get from our
meat department at work.

How I loved being able to help "roll" out the dough for the
rolls, cut them in circles, brush them with melted butter,
slice the center, fold them and place them on cookie sheets to
raise. They were always light as a feather and baked to a
light golden brown. I have tried for years, but have never been
able to make them like she did even though I helped. Mine seem
to always pop open. But they were the best for those turkey sandwiches
later in the day or even the next day.

I don't think we often had company. At least I don't think we did.
But, it didn't matter. We just enjoyed Mother's good cooking and
always laughed when she said she wish she had a zipper down
the front of her that she could unzip when she had eaten too
much. Why do we always eat too much dinner?

I remember a couple of years when we went with Daddy to the
turkey shoots where he would always win us our Thanksgiving
turkey. It was pretty exciting and there were always lots of
men participating. Dad even shot a goose one year. It wasn't
too bad. Of course, Mother always had a gift when it came to
cooking wild meat.

Dinner was always served in the early afternoon. While my sister
and I helped Mother clean up the kitchen after, Dad always stretched
out on the couch to sleep off his meal and whatever else he had been
into. But, we didn't allow him to rest very long because my sister
and I were anxious to don our snow pants, coats, boots and
gloves and head out to Deer Creek or Pine Creek to cut our
Christmas tree.


(Christmas trees waiting to be loaded onto jeep)

What fun it was wading through the snow searching for just
the right tree. We often took the Holmes with us and sometimes
Daddy would cut an extra tree or to for others. Then they
were loaded onto the jeep and home to be kept in the chicken
coop until the middle of December. Seems like our tree
could never be put up until around the 15th of the month.

I remember one year while tramping around the hills we
spotted a bear. Dad got so excited and so frustrated because
he didn't have his gun. We had to make a rush trip home for his
gun but by the time we returned the bear was nowhere to be found.
How disappointed Dad was, how relieved I was! It was a little
unnerving to a little girl.

Christmas music was turned on in the evening while we munched
on left overs. That was the beginning of the Christmas season for
our family.

Now today as I sit here reminiscing, I'm grateful that we always
had enough, that our table was never empty. I'm grateful that
I had a sister even though we were not especially close growing
up---six years apart makes a difference. I'm grateful to parents
for providing for us and making sure we never went without.
I'm grateful for the good times--yes there were some good times!
I'm grateful for my rich heritage and those who have gone before
me. I'm grateful we have a special day set aside when we can
focus on our blessings for we surely do have much to be
grateful for.

Happy Thanksgiving everyone!

Friday, November 20, 2009

More Gratitude Thoughts

I was reading some posts on Face Book from friends who
share daily things they are grateful for and it got me to
thinking that I am grateful we have this "season" of the
year that calls attention to all that we have to be thankful
for. But, I wish I'd be more consistent in expressing
"gratitude" throughout the year. We are commanded to
thank Heavenly Father AT ALL TIMES. Perhaps by the time
I complete my 1,000 Gifts I will
have formed a habit of more easily expressing gratitude to others
through the spoken or written word and will also express my
gratitude through my actions.

17. A wonderful Mother
18. Hand drawn pictures from Ian
19. "You Who's" coming from the front door
20. The "honking" of Canadian Geese flying overhead
morning and night
21. Long distance phone calls
22. Breathtaking sunsets
23. Heidi helping me clean up dropped leaves
24. Dana taking my bags of leaves for her garden
25. Comfy P.J.'s after a long day
26. Basket of freshly picked red delicious apples
27. Caring Visiting Teachers
28. Sleeping In
29. Qualifying for a current recommend
30. Birthday party invitations

Monday, November 16, 2009

Four Years

Today would have been my Mother's 94th Birthday. But, alas
she's been gone four years. It doesn't seem possible. Wasn't
it just yesterday we were saying "goodbye"? I miss her so
much, but know that she is in a better place and free from
all her earthly struggles.

As I was walking this morning I reflected on the fun times
we had celebrating hers, Rob's and Ian's birthday's together.
How she loved being with her family. We all loved that
$1.00 bill she'd tuck into our birthday cards and now I
carry on that tradition.

I'm grateful for the legacy she left, for the wonderful
Mother she was and still is. There is seldom a day goes by
that her influence is not felt in some way.

So, Happy Birthday, Mother. I love you!

Sunday, November 15, 2009

Found--New Projects!

I never knew, well perhaps I did, that there were so many wonderful
websites for free patterns for stitching and quilting. I guess that
it's just that this morning I took time to check some out after
printing off some adorable patterns for a BOM quilt that could
be appliqued or done in redwork.

I am so excited to see what wonderful things are being done by
everyday people. I want to do everything! If I just had 48 hours
in a day--but since I don't I'll have to be rather choosy in what
I do. Printed off patterns and instructions for a couple of things
and will put them in a looseleaf and try to work on them in
the coming year.

Even found a great idea for printing patterns on freezer paper,
adhering them to your fabric and tracing them. Can't wait to
try it. Where do people come up with these ideas?

My ribbon or wrapping paper Halloween quilt is coming along.
It was such fun to have JoAnn here for two days and start this
quick and easy project. I hope to finish sewing it this week and
then I'll post pictures.

Did do my BOM for first Saturday class yesterday and it took
forever! But, at least it is out of the way. Coming along nicely on
my Sister's Christmas present, so perhaps I can start one of the
cute Christmas stitcheries I printed off.

Friday, November 13, 2009

1,000 Gifts Continued

Funny, how when you start something that has value and meaning to you
more thoughts come to mind, you become more aware of your gifts and
blessings, more appreciative of what you have instead of what you don't
have. Today, I have more wonderful gifts to be thankful for:

6. A good, clean, friendly work environment.

7. One on one time with my grandchildren.

8. Thursdays with Hailey.

9. Making cutout cookies with Hailey and her friends.

10. Snuggle time and reading books with Hailey.

11. Giggles from little girls.

12. Being able to help a friend in a time of need.

13. Late night talks with my son.

14. Autumn's morning sun shining through my windows.

15. Early morning "checking in" phone calls.

16. Bright blue skies after a dismal gray day.

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

1,000 Gifts

Several years ago while watching Oprah she talked about doing a
"Gratitude" journal. She even had it set up that we could go
through her and do it on line. I did it for sometime and really
enjoyed it. Even got in the habit of expressing "gratitude" to
my Heavenly Father as I walked daily. Eventually, I was able
to think of things that filled my entire walking time. My
feelings of gratitude intensified and became deeper and more
meaningful as I did this. Then, sadly, and I don't remember
why, I stopped doing it.
Today, as I was browsing the internet I saw this idea of
expressing gratitude daily, weekly or however you chose and
seeking to reach the goal of being thankful for 1,000 gifts.
So, I decided to try it once again. Not sure if I will do it daily
or weekly. But, I am going to start with a few now:

1. Feeling very grateful for children who take time from their
busy schedules to come and work in my yard.

2. Grateful for choice friends and for time spent with them.

3. Cancer free--Three years November 7, 2009

4. Grateful for a car that gets me from here to there.

5. Thankful for a warm home and food on the table.